The DARE Process

 

DARE™ is a practical process for living with presence. It stands for: Define. Align. Refine. Express. This method turns awareness into meaningful purpose—through intentional expression.

 

Define

 

Definition is the origin of presence...

  • • Bring attention to what exists right now
  • • Define your thoughts, feelings, and values
  • • Extract principles from past experiences

Definition gives shape to awareness.

Align

 

Alignment is the bridge between awareness and intention...

  • • Make a choice about what you will change
  • • Align awareness with values
  • • A choice with planning becomes intention

Alignment makes intention practical.

 

Refine

 

Refinement is the discipline of removing distortion...

  • • Emotional expression becomes experience
  • • Removing distortion reduces resistance
  • • Refine our intention into purpose through action

Refinement prepares you for presence.

Express

 

Expression is how presence becomes visible...

  • • Act from presence, not pretense
  • • Expectation and assumption displace experience
  • • Create through recursion, not reaction

Expression turns purpose into being.

 

Why This Matters

 

Presence is not something you find—it’s something you define.

DARE™ is a way to stop describing and start defining.

  • • When you define, you create meaning.
  • • When you align, you activate intention.
  • • When you refine, you cultivate purpose.
  • • When you express, you create being.